Hi my babes! How are YOU?! We have officially left winter behind and spring has sprung! As we approach the summer time and all that it holds I know we are all putting pressure on ourselves. I mean bathing suits, shorts, dresses, all the things and all the seasons and occasions are approaching. And this idea of losing comes into our head. Right? We have to lose weight. We have to lose or cut out food. We have to lose sleep to workout. Lose delight and joy in ice cream. Lose lose lose. All this losing puts and surrounds us with negativity. We are anxious and worried about being perfect for this thing or that vacation. And in that we lose a lot more then maybe a pound or two. We lose time. We lose confidence. We lose pieces of ourselves and our lives. So instead of losing things that are short term, why don’t we take this time to think about the thing we can lose that will stay off forever. Because you know weight fluctuates as it should. Diets change. Priorities can shift. But I think the sustainable loss we can try to achieve is the weight of other people’s opinions. That’s a loss I am okay with and a loss that will lift weight and pressure off us and raise self esteem and confidence.

Do you ever look at people who just shine. And this I want whatever they have or whatever they are taking?! Anyone else do that? I know I do. What makes them shine is the comfort and contentment they have within themselves. They take a big pill of who cares in the morning and wash it down with a glass of I’m living my life the way I want and top it off with an eff you to people who have the time or the energy to judge. And you know what? They have it figured out. Because chasing perfection, chasing change, putting pressure on the now for the someday, that is joy sucking and damaging. It’s exhausting. It’s taxing! And it’s so self demeaning. I know it because I have done it. I think we all have. We worry about what everyone else thinks about our outfit or how we look. We worry about the rolls that form when we sit on the edge of the pool or the way we order at a restaurant. As if anyone truly cares? I mean really? Think about it...do they care? The answer is no. But they will know if you care. And them knowing you’re insecure is what you’re worried about. Right? You sit there worried what they will think. What they will say. What they will whisper. But if you didn’t even give them a chance or a peace of mind to care...1) you have let go of the weight of their opinion and wear your confidence and shine 2) you don’t care what they think because you’re living your best life.

Everyday you have a choice. You can love the skin you’re in and live life or you an let the skin you are in determine how you feel about a situation. Wear the bikini. Get in the picture. Order and eat the burger and fries. I’m not saying to throw all your healthy habits out the window, but THIS IS A HEALTHY HABBIT. believing in yourself. Saying yes to yourself. Saying eff you to other peoples opinion on your happiness, that is the definition of health!! It’s time to stop worrying and carrying the weight of what people think of you. Letting go of that will open a whole new understanding to who you are and how you see your life. Because at the end of the day, that’s what this is. It’s your life. Your memories. Your photos. Your time. Your money. Your energy. Spend and use it how it best suits you and best serves you. Don’t be a puppet to someone else’s life. Because guess what...they don’t care and if they do...the chances are they need to do the same thing.

So today, let it go. Take that weight off your shoulders. Say I am enough. Say I am beautiful. Stop putting pressure to lose and lose. Lose the weight of this and anything else that happens to you is a bonus. Because when you mentally love yourself and your life...some how good things and good changes start to happen. And one day you wake up living your best life with a lifetime of memories that you lived and loved every second of. Close your eyes. Imagine what that looks like. Put your big girl pants on, look in the mirror, and make a promise to let go of their opinions and say yes to whatever makes your heart beat, your eyes shine, and your soul sing.

All my love,

Caroline

Hi beautiful humans, how are you?! I always love the time we get to share together and the realizations that come to fruition with these blog posts. They truly are a gift to me, like all of you. Guiding and loving us through life with good vibes and positivity on the forefront. As we enter into this season of spring and life starts to begin again, bloom again, come to life again, what a beautiful reminder and message the universe has sent us that we too can partake in that. We can rise. We can grow. We can bloom. With love and consistency and a promise each day, we too can become our most beautiful beings. I mean no rain, no flowers right? But I think the key here is something we all struggle to do. We all struggle to continue to do. That idea of saying yes. And not the saying yes to the fundraiser or the bake sale or the email or the dishes. We somehow find a way to say yes to all of those things, even though we don’t want to. But saying yes to ourselves? Something that we need. Something that we so want. Something that maybe we say no to because we are afraid of what yes means? I don’t know and I’m not here to judge or make you feel anything but capable. But imagine a world where we soaked up the rain and the sunshine just like flowers and we let ourselves grow. It’s the idea of letting it happen and allowing it to transform us that I know I get stuck on. So how do we say not only say yes, but also let that yes do it’s magic? I don’t know for sure, but this is what I got.

So to me saying yes is the easiest step. It’s the quick spit back response. It’s the end of the conversation. It’s the buying more time before the work starts. I mean someone asks you something and all you have to do is say yes. Easy peasy lemon squeezy. It’s what happens after the yes that gets hard. It’s literally all the other steps of the yes. So let’s say you decide to start going to spin. You know you need that time. You know you need to move your body, cleanse your soul, and let your heart feel. Saying yes to that, signing up for the class, it’s literally a few clicks and your in. But getting there...I mean the infectious smiles of people and the love of that studio alone is motivation. But it’s taking time away from work or family. It’s leaving something “more important” (so we think). It’s changing clothes, which I know sounds silly, but sometimes it’s a step ya know?? Like you just have to put the clothes on. It’s driving. It’s setting intentions. It’s doing something that maybe you know you can’t do perfectly. It’s work. But remember, saying yes was the easiest part. So it’s not really the yes, it’s what happens after. And what happens after makes it self out to be all these minor inconveniences that we try to talk ourselves out of. But what we really want to walk away from is what happens.

You see, the work that actually goes into saying yes is wearing a mask. The mask is the struggle to get there. The figuring out the schedule. The not having enough time. We say that is what causes us to not do something. To not follow through. Because we really are just trying to shy away from what happens when we do say yes AND follow through. And that little thing that happens, that pesky thing, is change. The reason saying yes is easy but following through is hard is because on the other side of yes is the walk to change. The bridge you have to walk and cross to get to the growth. And it’s not always fun or the most thrilling of walks. When we get to this point, we see everything we need to work on. All our insecurities. All the shit we deal with on the daily. All the struggles, pain, heavy things that weigh us down. So of course we want to turn around and use the inconveniences as an excuse. It easier then dealing with all of that right? But what happens if we take a step on that bridge of change? Well, that’s when the sunlight and the water start growing the flower. Aka you.

You see, when you’re faced with something that is real you kind of have to deal with it. No matter how hard you try not to, it will keep showing up and dealing with it is just part of life. When you deal with one thing, you grow a little. You take another step. When you start to grow through things, you start to live. When you begin to live in the midst of all of your insecurities and struggles, that is called living with love. Because even though you are surrounded by so much pain and so many things that need to be fixed, you still chose to live and put your best foot forward for not only those in your life, but you. That is called love. When you start loving, you start shining. You start glowing. You start setting the light for others to live a life of love. And when that happens, you grow even more.

So saying yes? Keep doing it. But this time, go all in. Say yes to the pain. Say yes to the insecurities. Say yes to the mistakes you have made. The shame you have felt. Because if you can say yes to you in your most realest and rawest forms, then you have learned to love your true self. You have let yourself accept who you are. You let in the sunshine and the rain and you my beautiful friend have started to grow.

With all my love, sunshine, and rain,

Caroline

Hi there TORQUE tribe, Happy Friday! I know that sometimes it feels like these blogs come and go, but honestly I love how they are spaced out. I always feel so excited to sit down and write a blog when I know it has been a couple weeks. There is just so much more to say with time and so much more energy in one post. Less can be more and these blogs have shown me that. I don't know about you, but I know that this snow has me in a little bit of an anxious state. I’m anxious for spring. I’m anxious about what school will look like these days. I’m anxious about it ever ending. It is just one of those things that is great the first time it happens, but now it seems as if it is an inconvenience and just another thing making 2020-21 a mess. I am trying so hard to focus on the good that 2020-21 has brought us. Virtual school means no make up days when the weather is beautiful. The studio being closed just means time to explore the online classes. Not feeling like cooking is a great opportunity to support a local business. I try, on these days, to look towards what is bright and light, instead of what we see outside, cold and dreary. Believe me tribe, warmer and brighter days are coming. In the meantime, we have to stay close and dear to the hearts in our lives who time after time, carry us home. It is a weird world.


I want you to close your eyes right now and think about the people in your life. The ones who get you when you don't get yourself. The ones you can call for literally anything. The ones who speak volumes in silence because their presence is louder than any words. The ones who love you through all the stages of life. The ones who got you here to this point. The ones who carry you home. Think of them right now. I am sure you can see their face, hear their voice, recall a memory or time they were there for you. These people were not ones that just happened to show up. Maybe it appears that way. Maybe you met on a whim. Maybe they were a result of something no longer good or present in your life. Maybe they were there all along. Whatever the case may be or the story on how they came into your life, the common theme is they not only came into your life, they are still here in your life. Again, not on a whim but rather, a reason. Yes, these people, the ones you can see so clearly and pinpoint so quickly, they are here for a reason. Maybe you knew that already, maybe you are questioning what that reason is. My advice to you is to hold them tight. Nurture your friendship. Be the same person to them as they are to you. Love hard and don't let them go. The reason is, its a big world out there. It is a scary world out there. It can be a harsh world out there. But when you can face it knowing someone has your back, it can seem a little less intimidating.

I say this not because I feel that anyone here is a bad friend. And believe me we have all been a bad friend before. There are probably people that came to mind before that you have lost touch with. People you did wrong. People you wish were in your life but unfortunately they are not. That is okay. Life is a series of events that help us to grow into our best self. It is okay to have not been okay to be a good friend to some people on your way to this place now. Every relationship, every event, every encounter adds to who you are. Without mistakes and without living through these feelings, we wouldn't know how to be a good friend. Forgive yourself for doing wrong and send them a good wish or positive energy within your heart and know that forgiveness starts within yourself and is felt when you accept it in your bones.

The reason I say this is because we have been through ALOT. We are still going through ALOT. And it is important to really recognize the people who have helped you get here. The hearts who keep carry you back to brightness and lights. I can think of so many times during this pandemic where I wanted to just be done. Right? I just wanted it to be over. I wanted to stop following the guidelines. I wanted to break the rules. I wanted to just do nothing because it was so terrible. But then I think of those times and how they gave me the opportunity to grow deeper with some people in my life. They gave me revelations on who was with me and who loved me. They gave me a reason to feel the feels and let people in. And the people who were on the other side of the phone, and then eventually the driveway, and eventually a table during this pandemic, are the people who are so deep and rooted within my heart. It may have taken a pandemic to really realize this, but I bet you can say the same about some of those people in your life. Tough times make life clear. That is a blessing in and of itself.

I ask that you take time to think about the people who pick you up and carry you on your shoulders. Tell them you love them. Friendships are so essential in life. Family is one thing, but friends are a different ballgame. Sometimes the relationship is so different, yet so the same that our friends truly become our family. Give yourself grace for the ones you couldn't love at the time. And let your heart guide you and those you love to things that are bright and good. I know it knows the way always, even if it makes some turns or hits some bumps. It eventually, gets itself back on track. Maybe with a little help from a friend who carried you home.

I love you TORQUE Tribe. I miss you in my bones. I’ll see you soon, but until then, know I'm thinking of you and holding you near and dear to my heart. XOXO.

Caroline

Good Morning Tribe! I hope that this reaches you well. As I sit here writing this with my coffee watching the rain fall, I can’t help but think of how close we are to being back together. In just a few days, the doors open, the lights go on, the classes are full, the music is up, and for those 45 minute increments of us taking a class, all is well in the world. We are close people!! It is going to happen and when it does, it will be something special. Hold onto that hope and know, we will be together again very soon. I have been holding off writing a blog for the past couple weeks. Not only was it a busy time with the holidays and the general stress of virtual teaching, but I wanted to save this blog for this moment. New Years Eve. Of 2020. It seems like today is mile 25 in this marathon of a year we are running. Which, it very well is. We are so close. But, we have to be careful with how we think about what tomorrow means.

This year. How do we even talk about it? I mean I don't think any one person could have seen this coming. In one day, our lives were turned upside down outside of our control. Our homes suddenly became our workplaces, schools, gyms, date nights, music lessons, sports practices, and so much more. We had to figure it out. Make it work. I remember thinking, how am I going to teach, live, work out, and not escape my 800 square foot apartment. I am sure so many of you had similar thoughts and just were unsure of how this would work. It was unexpected. It was unfair. It was frustrating. But, it was our life. We had to figure it out because time kept going. The world didn’t stop. Emails still came, school still happened, meals were still needed. We figured out how to do life in a way we never had to before. We may not have been willing at every moment, but we were flexible and got it done. That is an accomplishment in and of it self for 2020. Being flexible and rising to the challenge. Give yourself a minute right now to find some grace in just how far you have come.

If you are like me, or really like any normal human, I am sure you have been waiting for today for a while. We have found ourselves saying “I can’t wait for 2020 to be over”. I know I have said that hundreds of times. Because truly, I can’t. But as the days approached and the status of the world somewhat remained the same, I realized the toxic power of putting my happiness on a timeline. I know so many of us are hoping and praying, and have been for months, that January 1st 2021 will be the start to a new year. It will be the answer to our last nine months of prayers. It will be…better. But I sit here today asking myself, how? How can the sun set and then rise again and everything has suddenly changed? The answer is it can’t and it won’t unless we take control of the day, seize it, and make it into to something good. A day is 24 hours that will happen regardless of what you do. It is up to you to make those 24 hours worth it. Think about it. Some days people run marathons on the days you are binging Netflix. Tomorrow, we need to wake up ready to train for the marathon, because the race is not over.

Destinations, goals, timelines, are all great. They help us keep on track. They give us something to work towards. They give up hope and courage to keep going. That is good and that is healthy. Using a vacation to motivate you to get in shape. Using a timeline to find success in your career. Setting a goal to achieve certain things. These are all healthy ways of thinking. Where we run into problems is when the date we are working towards is when happiness and relief will come. A date is just a date on a calendar. Kind of like the saying a gun on a table will stay there and harm no one until someone picks it up, the same thing happens here. I want you to go into 2021 with the mindset that this year is a year you get to live in. It is a gift. It is time to make things right. To work through things. To achieve your dreams. 2021 is not happiness in and of itself. You are. You are the happiness you are looking for. It is in you, it has always been in you. maybe this year, you couldn't find it. Maybe you were tired to the bone, stressed, exhausted, angry or scared. That is okay. We still have time.

So take 2021 as the opportunity to live in the ways we can. Take it as the chance to not let time steal anymore of your happiness. Don't put a date on when things will get better, just be better each day and it will come. Remember, happiness come from within not on a shelf. The only place you can find it is within yourself. Go into 2021 with hope for a better world, strength from what we have been through, flexibility and positivity from 2020, and maybe throw the bird up for shits and gigs. But when the clock strikes midnight tonight, know that the power lies within you and not the date not the calendar. Gandhi had it right…be the change you wish to see. It starts with one step, and that step is today.

I love you all! A couple more days until we can reunite in the place that keeps us whole :) Happy YOU year!

XOXO,
​C

Hi there TORQUE Tribe! It has been a little while, but as always, I am happy to be back with you in one of my most favorite spaces...the blog. I hope that the way of the world is not impacting you too much and that you are remembering to take care of yourselves no matter what stage of life you are in. It is the most important thing to do. No matter how big or small the action is, make sure you are doing something each day that makes your heart happy and your soul dance. It is truly what sets this tribe apart from the rest of the world. We use our happiness, our determination, and our strength to show the world love and kindness each day in some capacity. I just wanted to give you a shout out real quick to remember that your work, your presence, and your impact matters. Even when you think it doesn't, it does. I can promise you that.

When I sat down to write this today, I wasn't sure where it would lead me. I had a few ideas bopping around in my head, but like it always does, the topic comes to me when I am in this space. I close my eyes and I think of all of you. I think of how I see myself and my struggles and life experiences in all of you. I think of the relationships I have created. I think of the relationships I have lost. I think why? I think how? I think about this life we are walking and the lesson we have acquired together on this journey. I think a lot of things and I see a lot of things. And today, and for a while, I have been seeing and thinking of this message. Something that I live by greatly. And I am sure some of you do as well. But, I think we tend to live by the one side of it and don't really think about the other half of this equation. There is a saying, "if it won't matter in 5 years, don't give it 5 minutes." Those words are so true. So many things pop up throughout our daily lives. Little things that are pesky and annoying. Snarky comments, schedule changes, miscommunication, you name it, they happen. And believe me, I know, they are ANNOYING. They are just annoying enough that we dwell on them longer than we should. For instance, we get an email asking us to send something or forward something and upload something and that means we have to go dig and find it and then copy it and paste it and create and email and attach it and send it and we get so worked up over something that is minuscule. We could have honestly probably completed the task in the amount of time that we grabbed our phone, texted our friend or coworker or whoever to complain about the situation. I know I am not the only one here who takes small things in their day to day life and make them big. Because at that time, maybe they were big. But it is important to remember that whatever we are faced with won't matter in 5 years abs to not give 5 minutes of our life and frustration to it. But what about the other way around. What if we are faced with a situation and we ask ourselves that same question, "will this matter in 5 years?" What if we ask that...and the answer is yes. What do we do then? Well, to put it in short...we give it the 5 minutes.

I like words. I like to look deeper into words. I like to investigate them, manipulate them, and figure out what they mean. I like taking things and looking at it through a different lens or a lens that it wasn't intended to be looked through. This saying is telling us to not waste time on the little things....but if you manipulate that sentence and reverse it...it tells you something else. It tells you to spend time on the big things. That is what I want to talk about today. Those events, those moments, those life situations that happen in our lives that WILL matter in 5 years. What do we do with them? How do we process them? How do we move on from them. Because there are a ton of things that happen in our lives that will bring us happiness and joy. Like birthdays, anniversaries, milestones, careers, etc. And we celebrate them. But what about the events that don't have that same effect on us? What about the events that stop us in our tracks, make our hearts sink into our stomachs, and leave us standing there thinking not about 5 years, but simply the next 5 minutes. What about those events? I am not an expert by any means. Just a person who took something awful, and in 5 years made it beautiful. I can remember my stop in your track, heart sinking, not sure what the next 5 minutes held moment very clearly. I am sure that if you are reading this and can relate, you can feel something happening inside you and your mind drifting away to that exact moment, where life stopped being measured by years, and your future became seconds and minutes. These times are scary. These times are usually unannounced. And these times have no guidelines or best sellers on how to get out of them. These times suck when we are in them. But sometimes, and in my experience most times, they bring us to the most amazing things in life. To put this simply, these types of events require 5 minutes. They require a combination of 5 minutes. They require your entire being, all your energy, and your heart and soul. They require attention and support and love and patience. They require pain and hardship and tough decisions. They require you. Every single ounce. And they require this for a while. Until they don't, because one day they won't. And slowly but surely, these stop in your tracks moment become less and less a part of your life. Not that you forget them, but you start to accept them. You look at them in maybe a different lens, a lens that wasn't intended for the situation but that you decided to look through. You see the possibilities, the good, the opportunities that it leads you to. You let go of the pain and use it as motivation to persevere. You heal your wounds, but are proud of your scars. You do this by giving yourself time and grace. You are gentle and understanding. You take 3 steps forward some days and 3 steps back on others, but you don't stop moving. And one day, like me today, you wake up thinking back 5 years and realize you were happy you gave this 5 minutes (100000 times over again). Because these events that WILL matter in 5 years, are what make you you. Not the event itself but the strength, courage, freedom, and wisdom that you gain from it.

I want you to think about an event that changed your life. An event that you thought you would never overcome. And think of how it helped you get here to this place today. What did you gain from it? What did you learn from it? I can say that I gained my career, my friends, my fiance, my outlook, and my self worth. All from something that I thought was my ending. Little did I know, it was just the beginning. Give yourself the time, even if it is 5 minutes, to deal and heal from these events. 5 years from now it will still matter, but you can determine what that means for you. It's in you. It's been destined for you all along. And maybe now it is time to show the world and yourself, just how damn strong you are.

Things come and go, but you remain. Remember that. I love you, always and all ways.

Caroline

Hi there torque babes!! Wow. Writing that felt so good. I cannot tell you how much I miss this blog. Seriously, it is one of my most favorite things in this world and for the past couple of weeks I just haven’t been able to be here. Between moving and virtual teaching (what the hell were we thinking ??) life has just been crazy. But now that school is settling in and so are things at the house, I finally had the chance to be here with all of you. And it feels so good. I really cannot describe it. I guess I can say it is way better than writing lesson plans or emails. But anyway, welcome back and thank you for being patient.

These past few weeks, as I experienced the craziness of life right now, I kept asking myself...”could I blog about this?” Meaning, could I find something in the middle of the crazy and the stress and the technology to blog about. And finally I realized that all these things, these moments, all related and went back to this central idea. Something that I have said to myself I think 100 times since the sun rose this morning. Good things take time. Stay with me on this one, I promise your soul needs to hear it.

Babies. Businesses. Education. Falling in love with yourself. Paying off loans. Building a house. Achieving your dreams. Even wine for gods sake!! They all take time. That word is either your best friend or your worst enemy in situations. All things that are good, take time. I started saying this to myself a few weeks back. School started on Monday, we moved into our new house of Friday. I was so focused on getting my classroom set up and organized (hello virtual teaching) thst everything else got put to the side. We slept on our mattress on the floor with random blankets. We are take out more nights than I can count. Our clothes were in boxes. Nothing was is order. And I was mad. I couldn’t live like this. It wasn’t supposed to be this way and suddenly I got very overwhelmed. I just wanted it to be done. I wanted to be settled. I wanted it to be perfect. And it wasn’t. Then school started on Monday. Virtually. With 1st graders. And I wanted it to be perfect. I wanted them to have fun. I wanted everything to work. And when it didn’t and when it was hard, I got very overwhelmed and frustrated. I started to hate my job. And if you know me you know I LOVE my job. But I let the stress and frustration and anxiety over take the situation. Because in these moments, I wanted time to be my best friend. But it didn’t work like that, it had to be my enemy because the universe knew that these things would be good. And we know that good things take time.

But what do we do while the good things are taking their time?? Because sometimes it is a LONGGG time. Well, we find the little good things. We add them up. And soon the big good thing will be there. For instance, the day our pantry was organized and unpacked it felt a little better. I felt like we could cook. Things felt more normal. Was the whole house set up? Nope. But was it a little more then it was the day before. You bet. Or the day everyone logged into teams without a problem. Was the whole day perfect ??? No. But was that part? Yes. That’s the part we get stuck in. The waiting. The missing the process happen. Nothing happens overnight except pimples and snowstorms. Things take time. And if we constantly keep looking to what it will be, we will forever be frustrated with what it is now.

So the next time the school day has some bumps in it, remember that it gets better each day. When you can’t do the one sprint in class, remember there was a day you couldn’t do even one. When the days seem long, remember the years fly by. Be patient with time. It has a plan. It knows what is meant to be good. Trust in yourself. Find the good in the moments. And remember, in the end it’s all going to be okay and if it’s not okay then it’s not the end. You can do this. You are doing this. Just be more gentle on yourself while doing it. It makes the waiting less painful and the end goal more approachable. Oh, and remember to love yourself. Because you deserve it more than anyone else. That’s all for now. Hopefully it’s not another month before we chat, but if so, remember good things take time 😉

All my love, patience, and grace,

Caroline

Hi there tribe, I hope this finds you well. I started writing this blog and had a totally different topic in mind. But then, Tuesday hit, and it just felt like the topic needed to change because what’s important right now is just facing reality. The reality right now is, life is hard. And it seems to be getting harder. I mean I can’t be the only one who is sitting here thinking how much more can we take?? I think that right about now we are just all at the end of our ropes. This world, it is crazy. This year, record breaking. And here we are bearing the weight of it all. So the question that I am asking myself is...how do we keep going.

I know I am not the only one who some days I just want to throw in the towel. There are just those days where it all falls apart. Nothing goes right. Something else goes wrong. Everyone is screaming. No one is happy. And you sit there in your fear of failure and want to just quit. And guess what...that is okay. There is no how to on life. There is no right or wrong way to react. And sometimes the best thing to do on these days or these moments is to simply let them happen. Let them take up some of our energy. Allow ourselves to feel the feels. Throw a pitty party, drink some wine, eat ice cream, etc. That is OK. But, the key part to these days is to rise with the sun on the following and start new.

So let’s take this week. School board meetings are a nightmare. The pandemic and its guidelines can be frustrating to explain and carry through. Working from home is getting harder and harder as the days go on. Normalcy is a thing of the past. Fear of the virus is still very real. And I’m the midst of all of that...throw in a hurricane and massive flooding in our area. And somehow, just somehow, we are supposed to make sound decisions and have tough conversations and take time for ourselves and make happy summer memories. And sometimes, it is just too hard and we stand there and wonder just how much more can we take. My answer for this is not renown. It’s not anything special. It is something we all can do. Deep breaths. Take a deep breath. Slow and steady. I know that this seems so minuscule in the big picture, but that’s the idea. There is A LOT going on right now. The world is literally insane. And working in that big bubble is stressful. Imagine trying to climb a mountain with just one step. Impossible. So why do we try to face all of this at the same time. We need to take deep breaths. We need to wiggle our toes. We need to find our heart beat. We need to re-center and re-focus ourselves. And we need to take it down to one moment, one breath, and one problem to face at a time.

So with all of this going on and all the unknown that is going on, it is important to try and bring it back to one moment. One breath. One problem on the table to tackle. And then, face the next one. Remember that you are not alone. Cling to those who help you through. Find the sunshine during the days and if you can’t, look to the moon, it shines for a reason. Allow yourself to not be okay and keep on moving forward. It’s not a matter of how fast we are moving, but rather that we don’t stop moving, or trying in this case. Work will return. The kids will graduate. Normalcy will come back. And it will all be okay. Hold onto that and bring it into anything you face. Know that you are loved. Know that you are apart of one of the best communities in the world. And that if you ever need someone, we are here for you. We love you. We are here with you during this unknown time. And that one day, the sun will rise.

All my love and grace,

Caroline